枚举项

marriage 枚举

code	desc
SINGLE	未婚
MARRIED	已婚
DIVORCED	离异
WIDOWED	丧偶

contactRelation 枚举

code	desc
SPOUSE	配偶
PARENT	父母
CHILD	子女
SIBLING	兄弟姐妹
FRIEND	朋友
COLLEAGUE	同事
OTHER	其他